
After the August 20 World Cup win over England by the Spanish womenās football team, before a worldwide TV audience, Luis Rubiales, the ā¬900,000-a-year president of the Royal Spanish Football Federation (RFEF), planted an unwanted kiss on Spanish striker Jennifer Hermoso, slung forward Athenea del Castillo Beivide over his shoulder like a sack of potatoes, and grabbed his crotch in a gesture signifying that his womenās team and trainer (Jorge Vilda) have got balls.
Rubialesā performance provoked a storm of outrage, which culminated in 80 leading women players, including the whole successful World Cup squad, refusing to play for Spain while he and other RFEF leaders remain in their roles.
In an attempt to shrug off the controversy, Rubiales told COPE radio: āCome on, letās not pay any attention to the idiots and the stupid people. Itās a kiss between friends celebrating something. Forget the stupid nonsense! What with everything Iāve been through, no more stupid nonsense, no more fuckwits, please!ā
Since that moment, Rubialesā efforts at damage control and his refusal to resign as RFEF president have only created more damage. It will not only end his career as football supremo in ignominy, but also make it impossible for Spanish soccer to carry on as if nothing happened.
The incident prompted United Nations High Commissioner for Human Rights Volker Türk to tweet on August 29 that āwe all have the responsibility to denounce it [sexual harassment and abuse] and struggle against it, and we unite with Jennifer Hermoso and all those who are working to put an end to sexism and abuse in sport.ā
Footballās governing body, FIFA, has suspended Rubiales as president of its Spanish affiliate. The Spanish sports regulator has submitted a case for his dismissal to the Sports Administrative Tribunal, and National High Court prosecutors have opened an investigation into whether there are grounds for charging him with sexual assault.
Most of the RFEFās regional federations had deserted their leader by August 31.
Path to doom
Rubialesā end will come because of the refusal of the Spanish womenās team and other leading women players to put up with sexual harassment and humiliation from their RFEF bosses any longer.
Behind their defiance stands Spainās strong feminist movement and the main gains it has achieved in law ā the āOnly Yes is Yesā legislation against sexual harassment and a new Sports Law, which stipulates equality of treatment and representation in sports bodies for women and men.
A step-by-step account of Rubialesā journey to perdition shows how these factors helped end his patriarchal, clientelist rule and shook the football establishment to the core.
Rubialesā first shot at damage control, made on the August 21 flight back from Australia, was to suggest to Hermoso that she do a joint video with him at the Doha refuelling stop, to āclarify any misunderstandingā. Hermoso declined the offer, saying on Instagram āI didnāt like it, but what could I do?ā.
Rubiales then recorded a solo video in which he made a pseudo-apology after Spanish sports minister Miquel Iceta criticised his behaviour. He said: āIf there are people who are offended, I have to apologiseā, but insisted his unwanted kiss had been consensual.
Rubiales also got Vilda to pressure Hermosoās family into convincing her to issue some sort of declaration of conciliation, but without success.
That didnāt trouble the RFEF communications department. If Hermoso wouldnāt utter the right phrases, they would do it for her. When the teamās flight arrived in Madrid, an RFEF communiquĆ© appeared with these words attributed to Hermoso: āThe president and I have a great relationship, his behaviour with all of us has been excellent and it [the kiss] was a natural gesture of affection and gratitude. You can't go over and over a gesture of friendship and gratitude, we have won a World Cup and we are not going to be distracted from what is important.ā
āWorthless excusesā
The next reactions came on August 22 from acting Spanish Socialist Workers' Party (PSOE) Prime Minister Pedro SĆ”nchez and acting Deputy Prime Minister Yolanda DĆaz (of the more radical Sumar coalition).
SĆ”nchez said that Rubiale's apology had been āinadequateā, while DĆaz called for his resignation over his āabsolutely worthless excusesā.
Only an RFEF general assembly could sack Rubiales immediately, and when one was called for August 25, the expectation, based on RFEF leaks, was that Spainās football boss would yield to the growing calls for him to go.
In the meantime, Hermoso decided to let her agent and the womenās professional football union FUTPRO handle a case in which the political stakes were rapidly rising.
Its media release announcing this decision said: āFUTPRO rejects any attitude or conduct that violates the rights of women footballers and from the union we are working to ensure that acts such as those we have seen never go unpunished.ā
āI wonāt resignā
Rubiales' address at the RFEF special general assembly on August 25 was a bizarre affair. The federationās minority of women employees were mainly seated in the front rows and Rubialesā parents and children were also present. However, all major clubs stayed away, such that the quorum of 70 out of 140 affiliates was barely reached.
Contrary to expectations, Rubiales went on the offensive, repeating five times that he would not resign: āAn agreed kiss is enough to throw me out? Is that so serious that I have to go, after having given Spanish football its best management?ā
The only apology he made was for his āhardly edifyingā crotch grab (especially in the presence of Spanish royal family members).
Rubiales' speech reproduced all the themes of the cornered macho man: the perpetrator set up as the victim (āthey are trying to publicly assassinate me") and victim-blaming ("it was she who brought me close to her body").
He also claimed to be victim of a āwitch huntā and āsocial assassinationā by the āfalse feminism that wants neither equality nor justiceā.
Who are the true feminists? Rubiales turned to his daughters: āDonāt cry. You have to be proud about who your father is. You must differentiate between truth and lies, and I am telling the whole truth. You indeed are feminists, not like the false feminism thatās around. They donāt care about people. As a Spaniard, I believe we have to reflect on where weāre going.ā
āItās overā
The response from the women players was immediate. Hermosoās fellow team member Alexis Putella was the first to tweet: āThis is unacceptable. Itās over. With you, teammate!ā From then on #ItsOver (#³§±š“”³¦²¹²śĆ³) became a Spanish variant of #MeToo, the hashtag of a growing movement demanding the resignation of Rubiales, Vilda and their appointees.
Hermoso said in an August 25 FUTPRO media release that āat no momentā did she consent to Rubialesā kiss and that āI do not tolerate my word being doubted, even more so when words I never said have been inventedā.
The RFEF, which had issued photos āprovingā that Hermoso had consented to Rubialesā attention, then announced it was taking legal action against her.
The FUTPRO media release also stated that 80 leading women players, including the whole successful World Cup squad, would refuse to play for Spain āif the present leaders continueā. That ban has already forced the resignations of most of Vildaās technical team.
It has also forced notables and entities in the sports world to declare which side they are on in what has become the most debated topic in years in Spanish bars and on social networks, especially after Rubialesās mother declared she was going on a hunger strikeĀ ā which lasted two days before she was admitted to hospital.
In this atmosphere, silence ā adopted by Spanish sports notables such as tennis star Rafael Nadal and former Barcelona FC players Gerard Piquet and Carles Pujol ā is rightly being read as complicity with Rubiales.
On the party-political front, only the far-right Vox has sided with the suspended football boss. Commenting on August 30, the anti-feminists said that āit is clear to us that all this controversy has been generated by the SĆ”nchez government and its media outlets to hide the big problems in which Spain is immersedā.
By contrast, commentator Antoni Bassas summed up what Rubiales and his supporters represent: āPeople who think themselves very clever but are so dumb they themselves have wrecked the biggest success of their career. People who are driving in the wrong direction on the worldās highway but think that the problem are the others.ā
[Dick Nichols is Āé¶¹Ó³»ās European correspondent.]